From bessie.viola's own love list:
I love time with my girlfriends with a bottle of wine, just talking and laughing until we have tears in our eyes. I have loved – loved – scaling the tasks of motherhood with these women.
I've only just begun to realize that my circle of people to love and trust and lean on doesn't necessarily have to include someone who makes me feel shitty or judged. That kind of seems like it would be a no-brainer, I know, but it's not. Not for me, at least.
I'm finally learning that I get to decide who is on my team, who will scale life, motherhood, etc., with me, and that team should only consist of really kick-ass people, who drink wine and laugh and love with me.
Your team should be similarly awesome.